Speed Dating Events — National Directory
This directory lists speed dating events across every major US city, organized by market. Use the city links below to find upcoming events, compare operators, and book your spot. Events are updated continuously as new listings appear on Eventbrite and operator websites.
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How to Use This Directory
Select your city below to see upcoming speed dating events, operator reviews, typical pricing, and direct booking links. Each city page covers the main operators active in that market, the format of their events, and what to expect as a first-timer.
If you don't see your city listed, check Eventbrite directly — they aggregate local listings from dozens of organizers that may not have dedicated city pages here yet.
Event Sub-Types
- Senior Speed Dating Events — Events for singles over 50. Age-specific nights run by Pre-Dating and local organizers across all major cities.
Browse by City
The cities below are ranked by search volume and affiliate event density — the most active markets are listed first.
About Speed Dating Events
Speed dating events in the US typically run on a rotation format: 8–12 minutes per one-on-one conversation, 10–20 total "dates" per event, and a post-event matching system where organizers connect mutual matches. Events are age-range grouped (e.g., 25–35, 30–42, 50+) so you're meeting people at similar life stages.
Most events cost $25–$65 per ticket and are held at bars, wine bars, or private dining rooms in restaurant venues. Check each city page for specific pricing and operator details in your market.
Frequently Asked Questions
- What's the difference between speed dating and singles mixers?
- Speed dating uses a formal rotation system — every attendee speaks to every other attendee of the opposite group in timed rounds. Singles mixers are unstructured social events where you mingle freely. Speed dating is more efficient for meeting multiple people; mixers are better if you prefer organic conversation flow.
- How far in advance should I book a speed dating event?
- Popular events in major cities (Chicago, New York, LA) typically sell out 1–2 weeks before the event date. In smaller markets, you can usually book a few days out. Check Eventbrite for real-time availability.
- Do speed dating events have a dress code?
- Most events are smart casual. Aim for what you'd wear on a first date at a nice bar — polished but not formal. A few premium events specify business casual; the event listing will note if there's a stricter dress code.